It is with profound sorrow that the community of Topeka, Kansas, mourns the passing of Chad Blow—a devoted husband, loving father, loyal friend, and respected veteran. Chad’s sudden departure has left a deep void in the hearts of all who knew him. His loss is felt not just by his family and close circle, but by the countless people whose lives he touched through his kindness, service, and unwavering friendship.
Born and raised in Kansas, Chad carried with him a strong sense of loyalty and dedication that defined every chapter of his life. He was a man of deep integrity—honest, humble, and driven by a quiet but steadfast sense of purpose. Those who knew him best describe Chad as someone who would do anything for the people he loved. Whether it was lending an ear, showing up without being asked, or simply sharing a laugh when it was needed most, Chad had a gift for being present in the most meaningful ways.
Chad was also a proud and committed member of the Kansas Air National Guard, where he served his country with courage and professionalism. His military service was more than a career—it was a calling. Throughout his time in uniform, Chad formed bonds with fellow servicemembers that transcended rank and time. His leadership, compassion, and resilience earned him the respect of his peers and the admiration of those who had the privilege of serving alongside him.
Chad Blow KS Obituary: Beloved Resident of Topeka has Passed Away
One of the most heartwarming memories shared by those close to him was from December 2011, when Chad—then a 2nd Lieutenant—and his wife Capt. Amy Blow participated in the BNSF “Holiday Express” event. Together with their three daughters, they boarded the festive train ride at the Amtrak Depot in Topeka, where their holiday spirit shone brightly. The family’s laughter and joy that day left a lasting impression on those who shared the experience with them. It was just one of many moments that highlighted Chad’s deep love for his family and the joy he found in creating memories with them.
Chad’s devotion to his family was evident in every aspect of his life. He adored his wife and daughters, and he found his greatest sense of purpose in being a husband and father. Family was the anchor of Chad’s world, and he never let a day go by without expressing his gratitude for the life they shared. Whether it was coaching a soccer game, helping with homework, grilling in the backyard, or taking spontaneous road trips, Chad embraced fatherhood with wholehearted joy.
Outside of his military and family commitments, Chad was an irreplaceable friend to many. One especially moving tribute came from his close friend Merle Amrine, who shared heartfelt words that reflect the immense loss felt by those who were privileged to call Chad a brother-in-arms and a brother in life:
“It is with a heavy heart I had to say goodbye to one of my dearest best friends yesterday, Chad Blow. I cannot express the amount of emotion that is coursing through my veins—not only for me, but the entire family and group of friends. It is truly an honor and pleasure to have had this man by my side when I needed that in-person Vet therapy. He was my rock and I, his… I will miss our chats, playing bags, the laughs, the shared emotions, but most of all, the Hunts! Here’s to you, my friend. Peace be with you and Godspeed. We will meet again. Rest easy, My Brother in life and In-Arms.”
Merle’s words are echoed by many others who have taken to social media to share tributes, memories, and messages of love. The overwhelming response is a testament to Chad’s character—the kind of man who quietly but powerfully left his mark on everyone around him. He had a remarkable way of making people feel seen, heard, and valued, and his friendship was often described as both healing and empowering.
Chad’s support for fellow veterans extended far beyond shared service. He often served as a listening ear and a source of strength for others navigating the complexities of life after the military. He understood the unique challenges that came with that transition, and he gave generously of his time and heart to help others find peace and connection. In many ways, Chad became a symbol of hope and brotherhood for those who walked similar paths.
His hobbies and interests spoke to his love for adventure and community. He enjoyed the outdoors, particularly hunting trips that provided not just sport, but moments of bonding and reflection with those he held dear. He was known for his skill, patience, and appreciation for nature—often taking younger friends or family members under his wing to teach them the traditions that brought him so much peace.
As we come to terms with this devastating loss, we are reminded of the many ways Chad lived his life with purpose. He was not the loudest voice in the room, but he was often the most steady. He didn’t seek attention or accolades—he simply showed up, again and again, for the people he cared about. His life was built on values that matter deeply: love, loyalty, service, and resilience.
To Chad’s wife, daughters, extended family, and lifelong friends—we extend our deepest condolences. We know that no words can fill the space he once occupied, but we hope you find comfort in knowing how deeply he was admired, respected, and loved. Chad’s legacy will live on in every story told, in every life he impacted, and in the hearts of everyone lucky enough to know him.
As we remember Chad Blow, let us also reflect on the power of community, connection, and the difference one life can make. Chad’s time with us, while far too short, was full of meaning. He led by example, gave with his whole heart, and left behind a legacy that will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace, Chad. You served your country with honor, loved your family with everything you had, and brought light to the lives of all who knew you. You are dearly missed, but your spirit lives on—in your children, in your friends, and in the community that was better because of you.